Moms, experienced and new, I need your advice.
Here is the situation: Lily is 3 mos old, almost 3.5 mos. She is a great sleeper for her naps and does great at night also (11-12 hours!). I semi-sleep trained her to stay asleep once I put her in her bed, and then I semi-trained her again to put herself to sleep when I put her in her bed drowsy. She does great with her naps, it is very rare that I need to go into her room to soothe her during nap time.
Bed time is another story. For some reason, Lily doesn't like going to bed! Once she is asleep, she does great, but getting her to stay asleep is difficult. I usually nurse her to sleep (only for bed time), then put her into bed. Five-ten minutes later, she is crying. I then try to soothe her back to sleep, but end up nursing her again, then she is fine.
You may say: have you tried...? Or what about....? Yes, friends, I've tried it.
I've tried:
*Not nursing her to sleep. I nurse her 30 min before I put her in bed. She still woke up.
*Early bed time/Later bed time...doesn't seem to matter, she still wakes up.
*Prayer-I pray over her while I am nursing her, she still wakes up!
*Letting her cry. I actually let her cry for 30 minutes tonight, then went in and ended up nursing her.
*I thought she wasn't eating enough because she was falling asleep, so one night I kept waking her up to finish nursing, but that didn't work either!!
Should I even be stressing about this? Is it even that big of a deal? Is she still too young and I should just stop worrying about it? I just get frustrated because this wasn't a problem with Bobby, and I know she can do it. She does it just fine during the day. I know I shouldn't really complain. She sleeps through the night and sometimes sleeps until 9-9:30. It could be so much worse!
I just thought I would ask if y'all had any tips for me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!